It's just one more thing that makes me unique and different from everyone else..hehe..Being gay is a blessing and a curse.
When u're gay, u have to make many tough decisions pertaining to yourself as an individual and to other people. It is difficult, but it helps us grow, perhaps on average more than the straight people. We have to be strong, & we have more of a chance to learn, to stretch our comfort boundaries. However, there is also the pain of confusion as a teen which I am sure almost everyone has encountered, possible abandonment by people whom you love, depression & maybe thoughts on suicide & the impossibility of argue with those "fucktards" that don't even believe you have basic human rights as an excuse to deprive u of ur rights. Still, it helps us grow.
What we live through makes us stronger. And we are stronger than the average man or woman. It makes us who we are. Even though we're not labeled by it, we are still in a way defined by the fact that we are gay.. <peace>